Southern hospitality and a parkrun
So one of the crazier things we've done during this trip is a big road trip. Most people know that I'm a keen runner and a keen supporter of parkrun in Australia - a free, weekly, timed 5km run in many local communities. We've loved getting involved in Ginninderra parkrun in Canberra and feel very much part of that community. We are keen to do some international parkruns but there isn't a lot of choice in the US> There are only three parkruns: Florida, North Carolina or Michigan.
North Carolina was the one that we chose, as it was about 4 1/2 hour drive south of Washington DC. We had one night at an airport hotel then made our way down to Durham, NC. As well as parkrun, we were keen to experience some of rural USA. We were keen to get away from the cities on the tourist track and see other sides.
Unfortunately I didn't take photos, so this will have to just be read!
Our first stop was in Richmond, which is the capital of Virginia and the site of the Civil War back in the 1860s. Strong political history and a large black population. We got off the freeway to try and find a cafe for lunch and well, we had trouble! We ended up at a place ... certainly not a cafe, more a bar but not somewhere we'd usually take the kids. It was empty and two ladies insisted we come in then welcomed us instantly. Menus were handed out and it had promise, but not quite ... well, the two ladies went out of their way. The just asked what we wanted and then delivered! It was a great example of southern hospitality and certainly a reminder not to judge by looks ... whether it be a book, a cafe/bar or a person! One lady had disappeared out the back as we went to leave, but she ran out onto the street and chased us down to say goodbye. Such a positive experience!
We arrived in Durham, North Carolina, late afternoon. We were looking for some variation in food as we are finding it hard to avoid chains and processed food. The hotel gave us a list and we headed for Asian. A great little find: the green chicken curry was one of the best we've had since being away; and the kids loved the pork dumplings. And cheap ... that was an added bonus. Not a special meal in any way, but certainly a great meal.
Saturday morning saw us all dressed in our parkrun t-shirts and full of energy. Unfortunately the fog, the 28 degree temps and the 95% humidity quickly drained some of that! But, with a very warm (emotionally warm as well as temperature warm) welcome from DurhamNC parkrun team, we were ready to run. Tony and I both ran, in a field of 11 runners! Only two volunteers are needed to make DurhamNC parkrun happen, but these lovely people welcomed our kids and gave them jobs. The course was a two lap course which meant we got to run past the kids at the halfway point: they were doing their jobs of cheering loudly and waving our Aussie flag! The course is beautiful and during autumn the colours of the leaves would be stunning. The group was small so there was lots of chatting afterwards and we loved getting some local tips, especially for Washington DC.
BTW: Tony did a cracker of a time (PB or PR as they say here); Gemma did a rather slow time!
We stayed around and had breakfast with some of these lovely people. I don't understand why parkrun hasn't taken off in the US. The model is exactly the same as in Australia and the people are so friendly. They didn't have much signage, such as an A-frame outlining the course and flags for the finish line; we wonder if that impacts. We wonder if the general public running around the area might not realise what is going on and do not realise that it is open to the general public. The only thing advertising it to the world was chalk markings that they do each week.
We had a great morning and Julie and Martin facilitate a great run. We wish them every success in the future and hope that it grows. Olivia and Lach were credited as being volunteers which was not expected at all but gave them a great thrill. Thanks to them, and to Tom, who joined us for breakfast, for being such great company.
While there was plenty to see in the Durham area, as well as the Richmond & Williamsburg area, the site of the Civil War, we decided to head directly back to Washington DC. There was too much to do in DC and our theory is to do one area and do it well, rather than briefly touch several areas.
We did decide to avoid some of the large Interstate roads leading back to DC, especially as we had hit bad traffic the previous day. We stopped at Richmond again for a late lunch and had more success with a cafe for lunch, then headed towards DC on a smaller road. Tony was sick of driving freeways and really wanted to see some countryside... he wanted to know what was on the other side of the thick tree-lined freeways.
Also, the whole time we've been away, we've noticed a lack of animals. Tony wanted to see some countryside to hunt down some animals. While we didn't see many apart from a few horses and a few cows (nothing that could be called a herd), we did find churches: heaps of them! At one stage, we had counted about 6 Baptist churches within a 5 minute drive. Bible belt country! We also noticed large houses on large blocks of land, with extremely well kept lawns. The grass was mown right up to the road. Only a few fences, generally where there were animals, but no fences when there were crops. Funny little businesses: a funeral directors; a mechanic; a general store; seemingly in the middle of nowhere. All very green and lush, so a pretty drive. We found Lake Anna - a very large lake that had so many inlets, we crossed it about 4 times. A haven for water sports and stunning scenery.
We needed a break so headed towards Culpeper which was just a name on the map. We knew nothing about it and just wanted toilets, grass and a playground ... in that order! We only found one, which thankfully was the toilet! We did however, meet more lovely ladies in the Tourist office and discovered what a cute little town Culpeper is! We were so sorry that it wasn't meal time as the cafes and restaurants in Culpeper looked very impressive. A short wander, as it was very hot, then back to the car - but Culpeper made us smile.
From Culpeper it was only just over an hour back to our hotel near Dulles airport in DC, but unfortunately we were back to main highways.
Our extremely short stint south certainly showed us:
- southern hospitality: it is alive and well and people are so kind.
- the manners in the US: everyone is extremely polite. They use 'thank you' so much; they address you by Madame and Sir. "Youw'll have a great day", in southern drawl, was fun to hear so often. We could all copy some of this!
- the countryside was gorgeous. Green, lush and rollings hills.
To finish all this off ... we were just awake on Sunday morning at our hotel in DC and the fire alarm went off. First time we've had to evacuate from a hotel. Tony and the children were ready to get out quick smart but I was more worried about our passports, the iPad and the laptop, which has all our lives, our personal details and our photos! Thankfully for the hotel, it was a false alarm but it did add some excitement to our morning.
Now to hit Washington DC and explore another capital city!